Top 4 Tips to Make Sex Better for Her

By nicole bryant | January 15, 2019

It’s no secret that when it comes to the male orgasm vs the female orgasm, males experience orgasm during sex a lot more frequently than females.

There have even been studies done to prove this, and some now refer to this phenomena as the “orgasm gap.”

Why females experience orgasms less frequently isn’t exactly known. Some theorize it’s the product of evolution, others think it’s due to libido, and some think it’s because females have lower self-esteem when it comes to body image.

All of these theories may have some truth to them, however, it’s also likely that the real reason is a lot simpler: a lot of men just don’t know what to do to make a woman orgasm.

If you think you may be one of those men, don’t feel bad, because it’s never too late to learn how to please a woman.

Read on to learn the top 4 tips to make sex better for her.

1. Take Your Time

Sex is not a race, and it never should be treated as such.

A lot of times, a man’s plan to help a woman reach orgasm ends up backfiring when they put too much pressure on the situation.

If you constantly keep asking her if she’s getting close, she’s not going to be able to relax and reach climax.

Of course, you want to make your lady have an orgasm, but trying to force it will never work and will just leave her feeling annoyed.

2. You Don’t Need to Figure it Out All On Your Own

If you want to make a woman orgasm, don’t feel like you need to do it all on your own.

No, we’re not talking about adding another partner to the element. Instead, we’re talking about encouraging your woman to play a more active role in her orgasm.

For example, you could suggest that she use her favorite sex toy to help her orgasm. If she has clitoral orgasms, you could suggest one of these unique vibrators for her.

A lot of men think it’s emasculating when a woman uses sex toys or her own hands to help things along.

But, there’s nothing emasculating about letting your woman do what she needs to do to have an orgasm.

3. Map Her Body

Remember, the vagina isn’t the only erogenous zone on a woman’s body.

Take your time before and during sex to explore some of the other ones. Playing with her breasts, neck, inner thighs, shoulders, ears, and buttocks can do wonders to relax a woman and make her feel prepared to orgasm.

Also, don’t be afraid to experiment a bit with the different speeds and pressures you apply to each area.

Invite her to give you feedback on what areas she enjoys the most, and then follow her cue.

4. Foreplay, Foreplay, and More Foreplay

For women, there is almost never a thing as too much foreplay.

In fact, foreplay is usually what makes or breaks whether or not a woman is going to orgasm. In general, men should be worrying a lot less about their rhythm during sex, and a lot more about foreplay.

Always, and we mean always, wait until she indicates that she is ready to receive. Too many times, men abruptly stop foreplay because they’re ready, and then proceed to the sex act without even checking in with the woman.

Basically, you want to make it so she is practically begging for it. Then, away you go.

With these 4 tips in mind, sex should be a lot better for your lady friend!